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[UPDATE] The "Face" of Military Dating Scams - The Wall of Shame
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[UPDATE] The "Face" of Military Dating Scams - The Wall of Shame
I was checking out a dating site for kicks. A guy pinged me saying he
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I am lena lobdell and I did not put this on here, about Edward Robert
Military Dating Scams (More Nigerian Scammers)
thompson micheal is also using this email address thompsonmicheal964@y
Military Dating Scams (More Nigerian Scammers)
yes iam too a stupid victim to the nigerian money scam im from austral
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celsao
my name is celsao,i have been receiving emails from some claiming to be ssgt james nobile.and i met him on speeddate where at first i did thinkit was him claiming hes from austin and he uses the yahoo adresses of (realmejames@yahoo.com) i was fast at realizing he was fake as soon as he tried to tell me he was falling for me when hes never met me and ony been talking to me for couple weeks so i played his game for a while to truly find out and soon as i would confronted him he got very upset and the other email he gave me also i did research on it came backas fake scammershave several pics to prove hesent me
james
So this is the type of woman you are,the lord will jugde trying to tarnish my image…
CJ
James is a scam and his IP traces to Africa.
Sandra Carpenter
SSgt. James Nobile has been my boyfriend for the last 2 years and he swears that he is not posting his pics or on any chat with other woman. I would like to see the pics that anyone has. He is suppose to be home soon and if he is lying I will catch him. Our wedding will be off to. He has no children,except my son.
No Name for my safetly
Sandra,
So what state you live in? ‘Cause I want to verify that. Don’t need to give city.
I heard some news about this Nobile person, whatever his real name is, but I don’t want to put my contact info here, as what happens if this boyfriend of yours is whacko? I don’t want to get bumped off, you see my side of this?
If those are really his pictures, sorry dear, he’s putting real SHAME to his uniform and should be dishonorably discharged and even proscecuted! He is not being faithful to you, even if not in person cheating, if leading anyone on that he’s available, that’s wrong. And yeah, sorry dear, if that’s the same one who was communicating with me, he’s cheating. Barely talked about himself, background, kept things very vague.
Or how do we know, if you aren’t in on this scam too, as if some ask for money, like some, and they get money, isn’t that feathering your nest too? Or if you aren’t actually him too trying to defend your scam? Sorry, these are questions we have to ask sometimes, when got our hearts stomped on out here. If you really are his girlfriend/that’s really your name here, then am VERY sorry. If you are real, call off the wedding, as he was talking about proposing to me.
If you would or someone else I don’t know email me directy, I won’t reply except HERE.
Anonn
Safetly????? Dear as you called the poster above you,you sound like a troll and you type like an African in fact the first 3 post except for when CJ tells the truth which this is a scammer and a scam you scammers really think you are smart but remember HE knows where your email originates from so stop coming to this site trying to find out how to be better scammer find another site to troll how the hell would someone you dont know knock you off clearly you are one scammer thats fallen of the deep end LOSER! yes Anonn said it
Sandra
I hate to tell you but I’m 100 % American and I’m white,DUH!!!
janet theriault
omg dear just read what i posted … am sorry to tell u this but you are beeing scamm
Sandra Carpenter
If he contacts you again ask him how is JBaby and if its him he will deny or get offensive.
Ann
I am using my REAL middle name, I never gave him my middle name. Like having my right hand on a Bible, I am telling the truth.
I doubt that there are just a couple victims, as there just rarely is. I asked a friend for help, as something finally made me suspicious. I couldn’t find anything about James online, and then my friend Heide found your website. Her husband was in the Military and he pointed out a few things that sounded fake. Too bad I did not ask around to friends a whole lot sooner, as it would have saved me a lot.
I didn’t want to believe it that I was lied to and scammed. Someone is quite cruel!
Earlier this year, I was contacted from a dating site by James Nobile. Or to give benefit of the doubt, someone saying he was James Nobile. He said he was interested in getting to know me. He wasn’t the only one interested in me, but first he was casually emailing, then started to come on strong, so I thought there was really something between there.
I was sent some pictures, can very clearly see his last name on his uniform in one of the pictures. It didn’t take long for him to be in love with me, and certainly with getting wonderful attention, I felt like I loved him, too. I’d had other relationships start online & go fast, even had dated some from few months to many months, so to start to have strong feelings for a new man I’d not met in person yet wasn’t anything new to me. I thought he was sincere too, thought it was REAL.
It did not take long before we were emailing every day, even chatting online several times. He expressed great love, concern for me, and talked about wanting to meet, make love with me. Talked about having a future together and being so happy he found me..
IF DEPLOYED, CAN SOMEONE REALLY BE ONLINE A LOT?? Like hour or more a day, could that be? I would think they are not working every single waking moment, like if at a base, must get some time off during the day, but that’s only my guess. If they would not get to go online a lot every day, then I doubt is your man, Sandra, but an impersonator.
This guy claimed to be online a lot working, but also went on patrols.
What if this is an identity theft, then his girlfriend would be making a big mistake by dumping him, if this would be the only reason. If this is an identity theft, you can join my lawsuit against the impostor. It won’t be soon, as I know it will take time to catch them, but I am filling complaints, so the FBI, Police, etc. will investigate this and find out the truth. I have plenty of information, so they should be able to track the culprit down.
I will not let this end, I will see whoever is behind this in court one day. So they better make things right now, and they would know what I’m talking about, as if they don’t, I will recoup my losses and then a lot more in court, as I will sue for emotional damages too. If this thief thinks I will not drag this out into the public because they think I’d be embarrassed about things said in emails and chats between us, and that instead of being loved I was scammed, they are in for a surprise. The scammer is the one who will be shamed.
I REALLY hope & PRAY it is not the soldier pictured, as that would be extra sad.
If an impersonator, they will be caught. Is just a matter of time, so if you don’t put things right, I will see you in court when the authorities verify who you are, whether months or years from now. They have your contact info you gave me, and a lot more. I told them everything. Sure they have bigger criminals to catch, so might as well make it easier for yourself by making things right for me.
I can PROVE this to this site, they can email me, so they can see what hell I’ve been put through. I can share the pictures and several emails I was sent by this person, so they can put a little posting here too confirming that I was sent pictures and emails.
Again, right hand on Bible, I was scammed. But by who?? The real James Nobile, or a fake?
janet theriault
omg i cant believe this ……….. this scumm bag is using bryan nobile pics …. he should be hang by the ……………. am sorry to tell u guys but your are beeing scamm like i was last october … i receive and email by someone who called himself noble david .. and many names … well this noble david as a facebook using bryan pics …. and by the way bryan doesnt look like this … this pic was taken many years ago… and bryan isnt in the army no more . and if you check on face book for bryan nobile you will see bryan nobile pics and this one .. and if you want to join a groupe on face book its called united states military dating scam ..this site will help u ..i know for me it work.. cuz when i found out i wa scam i didnt know who to turn too ,, i was in disbeleive . .. i coudnt believe this was happening to me .. and the night i found out i was scam i check out on you tube a video called US SOLDIER VIDEO PART 3.. that were i found out iwa sscamm cuz bryan nobile pic appear in the video in the video bryan appears in a gray t-shirt .. this video is about real soldier who scammer steel from them… the scammers comes from NIGERIA … if you check bryans pics search for the title road warriors he put diffrent title to his pics .. when i found bryan in january .. he was glad i told him .. but i think he knew about his pics long before i found him … and i hope you didnt sent money to this scumm bag cuz i maid the biggest mistake sendind 500.. dollars for his supose leave that wasnt even true …. he had me for a fool this noble man…. and pretend to say that they havent aacces to phone over there in the army ……… not true .. they do have access ,,, this scum bag called me true a celle phone …. i have a military friend who i meant this past months ,,well he is canadian cuz i come from canada.. and i told my story he coudnt believe that i send money …. … i hope that i didnt upset u .. but i had to share my story with you guys cuz me and bryan are good friends now and he doesnt deserve this ……. he served his country with pride
lilly
brayan nobile is my hussaband and we be married for 9 year
i know nobile wont do tht but he did hurt me he tell me true he is a ass whole he like to
uesd woman for mony and he lies to all of woman he lies to alll of you guys
his real name is brayan nobile i have him on my yahoo id and faces book
and he have twlillyll every one tht at i have died and he lies to the family
am not with him at all but deep down he crazy he does know wwhat he is doing
and i cant for give him end more what he did to alll u woman out there am very sorry for u guys he shoud be tell u guys true am shame of him so much he make me cry every day all woman come to me and i just take his bul lies yes he fake to be some one elyes he lies to u all
u can email me lillyfranklin6921@yahoo.com i amgoing to trun him in to fbi
is looking for him too
janet
to liily omg am friends with the real bryan nobile on face book and its not as fake facebook . bryan is only 36 years old and if you check closely on bryans facebook he has is family on it and u can see when he posted something on his facebook its real. and i think u maid up all this story that u are married to bryan for 9 years
amanda
I just read your comment. I was done the same exact way by James Nobile. I fell for him also. I sent him money. I was lied to. He scammed me. I hope he is caught.
Sandra
The real James is in the middle east. I have been confronted by the one In Africa. He uses the names,henry,james,ivan,micheal,brian and so many others. he has been traced to nigeria,canada,and johannasburg africa. It has caused me and the real James so much heart ache and pain. I do not scam people. I know how it feels and it has caused several military families alot of shame and marital problems.
Sandra
However I am sad to say that this imposter is using the real James photos as they do several soldiers. they get them off of facebook,hacking into accts,and however they can. It took awhile before James would let me in on alot of things. He did not start telling me he loved me right off hand. It took several months. The FBI,DOD, and even the White house says they cant stop it.So when he gets home maybe we can heal.
lilly
i hate so much what he did to me in pass and he uesd lots woman
and he trune to and nex that he say he i hosplita so i dont buy he shit at all he is a liear and loeser
he real brayan nobile i know where he live and i have talk to him on phone with his fathr
and sister and they told me he uesd lots fake name of differn people nanme he alswe keep his last name nobile
so he well listing ot me becuase i know he wont be doing tht ot me but he have hurt me ddep
he uesd my picuter and my kids to i wanna him to go to hell and i hope he well stop this sooner
sandra castillo
Girls, the scammers really dream to be like the real American Hero. The real Nobile is a successful individual who in addition to serving his country for so many years is a human being who has his own personal problems. I know right now that he is very happy and I am so happy for happy for him. So lets all wish this hero good luck!!!!!!!!
Sandra Carpenter
How do you know he is happy? I’m tired of all these women saying they are with my guy.
Sandra Carpenter
He has served his country well for nearly 20 years and wishes to retire soon. My son is waiting patiently for him to be home soon.
amanda
Is this guy really your husband? He told me his wife died of cancer and that his son is in alabama in a military school. He even made up a fake picture of a kid to chat with me on msn. He even wanted me to send money so he could get a cell phone because he was just dying to hear my voice and talk with his son luke again.
amanda
Iv been talking to *james. He is a scam
amanda
Iv been talking to *james. He is a scam. I cant believe this. I sent him money. I hope the bastard dies
Alex
Hi,
I grew up in North Yorkshire. We lived on a small land area, but my late dad worked for the City of Harrogate for income. My late mom was a full time mom. We didn’t have a lot of money, but we had a garden and cows so we were never hungry. Almost all of my
ancestral were English except my great-grandmother on my mom’s side was an Irish.
Growing up, there were always lots of visitors to our house. My oldest brother is 10 years older than me. He died some year back,So many of the older kids were bringing their college friends home on the weekends for home cooked food. There are lots of good
memories, but also some hard and sad ones. But we’ve all learned to go on with our lives which seems equally tragic. I really wanted the world to come to a standstill when brother died.We were the “Eagle Eye” of the family and were very close. His children have had to grow up knowing their father as a good man, now everybody is on different paths.
I have never been married,No kids but now…i want to prepare for my life been with a loving woman to marry so that we can spend the rest of our lives together I hope we could talk better about this on IM…You can add me to your IM so that we can chat more may be later in the day.It seems am not feeling fine to write this again….But I want someone serious , caring and honest woman. I like cooking pasta with roasted chicken and fruit Juice. Well about my work i work as war strategist in the US army..leader of my team.. i am on deployment out of the states to Afghanistan at the moment been there for some months now.. i have been on deployment now just pray am out of the war zone soon. hope you are not scared of my job.Do you live alone ? what do you actually do for a living? This has been a very long message and I apologize if it’s boring, so I better get to prepared for patrol now. What can i call your full name ?Send me some more of your pictures…i will be waiting to hear from you soon..and here are some of my pics too with the one in uniform…Wish you well..plz don’t hesitate to ask me anything you ‘ll like to know about me…
from..
Wesley
Here’s one of his emails, it’s the same pictures and he has just contacted me. He claims to be in afghanistan on deployment. The pictures he sent are the same I have seen.. Good luck girls, I have been researching date scamms for my latest book and somehow I seem to be very good at attracting them. Please don’t give him any money, I know I never will give money to a man, no matter how desperate I am.
janet
hello sandra castillo . did you talk with the real nobile . his name is bryan nobile .. am friends with him on face book cuz i was scam last year by someone who stole bryans facebook . but am glad i found the eral one cuz he is such a nice person and he is only 36 years old . the scammer maid him older . i hope the scammers goes to hell cuz me i was scamm and i was hurt alot about this. but sinec then i meant this wonderful man in my life and beleive or not am dating a real canadian soldier cuz am from canada .
Anthonia Haledo
I think ( I know) I am scammed too by ‘James”Nobile.
I also fell or this person and send him money too for his leave to Nigeria.
Am really ashamed for falling for this scamm.
Hope women will learn from our stories.